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when one does not know them self, then it is easier to lie. They have an, lets call it an "agreement" with their self. If they lie then it doesn't have to be real and if it's not real then it's not presant (it's future-fantacy-that's come from a so called harmed or hurt past) and if it's not presant then the person is lost in another realm of reality. To stalk ones self and to see "when" he/she is lying. They will at least, in my past, will see that it comes from fear. Regardless of wether it's right or wrong... says that a person is ether lying to hide out of fear of rejection or they lie to manipulate (control). If they stalk them self and see what path the lie comes from, would be grand. But they should know that if they are ok with lying, than a lying reality they will create.

I don't see right and wrong in lying. People do it to feel safe! But what is safty but another illusion of what we want because we fear we wont get it. we lie because of personal history. If we are without personal history and are presant, than we naturally become lie free! Care free. Silent and Still mind.

Personal history is what we should stalk in our self. Start taking notes next time you "feel" an emotion other than oneness or this warmth in yor chest (not to be confused with careing or sympathy). That feeling can be traced back to another time or memory which goes back further. Find where the source comes from...Know wether this emotion is worth bringing with you. (recapitulate and let go) :wacko:


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