[Lilac]

Well, I was a loner and mostly am still, but I do have a partner. He's not so much into nagualism, but not against it either, and that's the most important thing. Although it's obvious that in some way we share energy (sometimes I read his thoughs or he reads mine and things like that), I'm very fond of to doing things on my own. Personally I think that too much togethernes can be the end for a relationship.

And yes, a partner can be sometimes a little tyrant, and sometimes a scout for you and sometimes even a guru. It's really about that where the energy is put and what is needeed.

I love my partner, but if we ever part, I know I will just keep on living my life and being myself. He's not a half of me and I'm not a half of him. That is very important to remember.

Thinking about the CC's stories: the warriors were indepentend to have their own destinies; nagual Julian's party didn't go to the other world together, and somebody (was it Taisha Abelar or Florinda Donner-Grau???) told that a couple of the woman warriors of don Juan's party didn't go with don Juan.

We as people make alliances, but it shouldn't drain us. Starting and ending a relationship should be for the necessity, not because it's somehow easier to be with just somebody, or to be alone. The easiest way isn't always the best way to learn and experience.