[ensonar]

I don't feel an inclination to practice the humanist egalitarian virtue of tolerance-for-whatever just because it's the socially dictated trend of today. I don't feel any duty to play the "we are all big happy family" game, and I find the whole idea behind it disgusting and harmful.

I'm not sure if I'm taking this in the way you meant it or not, but I just wanted to say that I don't play that game either. We are not one big happy family. What I'm getting at is that anyone can do whatever they want really, it doesn't make a bit of difference to me. I have no interest in eaglefeather, or any of the rest of them. But neither do I have any interest in wasting my time and energy trying to convert anyone else to my ideas or feelings.